~~~Thanks for stepping into my 'glass is half full' perpsective on life, drink up! ;) May you find something here that will change your life...or, on a lighter note, at least make you smile :-) Love and light earthlings!! 
“The woman that I am today, came on purpose. The woman that I am becoming, is coming on purpose. At some point you realize that life is too short to continue living by trial and error. You eventually begin to do and become on purpose.” –Selena J
Hey fellas! I know you can appreciate a few good ideas on how to Step Ya Game Up with the ladies, right? I have an ongoing list of simple things you can do to do just that! Check them out on the right side of this page. Click Here to e-mail me Your Own List!
Guys, I know when you have a question about a woman, you usually ask another guy. But what better way to get inside the mind of a woman than to ask another woman? That’s what I’m here for fellas! If you need a woman’s take on love, sex, dating or relationship issues, just ask me! Click, Ask Selena J
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R. Kelly and I talked about his new album, new book and what you can expect on the cruise with him! Listen
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Yes yes yes...just watch and enjoy!
Tony Cornelius spoke with Gayle King on "CBS This Morning" about his father's passing and said that his dad called him just hours before he took his own life. Watch the video clip below.
What a refreshing conversation! If you missed it, I spoke with Grammy nominated singer, songwriter and producer Kem about his new album, his upcoming show in St. Louis, and yes, even his love life!
Listen below and don't forget to tune in weekdays at 1pm for your chance to win tickets to see Kem and Babyface live at the Chaivetz Arena on February 11th! Click here for more details.
Madamnoire.com helps out the sistas with stalling hair...
1. Breakage- In my experience, this is the number one reason hair seems not to grow. A lot of times we forget to moisturize the ends of our hair so they dry up and break off. You must remember that the curlier your hair, the less likely oil is to reach the end of the strands, so that’s where you need to step in. It is just as important to oil the ends of your hair, as it is to oil the scalp.
2. Split Ends- Split ends can be caused from lack of moisture, heat, chemicals, and plain carelessness. It’s important to trim chemically treated hair every 6-8 weeks, and natural hair every 3-5 months, and make sure to keep hair moisturized to avoid split ends. When hair splits at the end, it splits all the way up the shaft causing breakage and creating a thinner strand. Wearing weave and extensions can also cause split ends, so you will want to trim a little every time you take your extensions out.
3. Scalp Build Up- Grease and other heavy products can clog your scalps pores, stunting the growth of your hair. Your scalp needs to be able to breathe! Use light products that penetrate your scalp and hair. Try to use all-natural essential oils and avoid grease, wax, or jam. If heavy product is required for styling, be sure to shampoo or clean your scalp with an astringent at the end of the day.
4. Diet/Medication- Everything that goes into our body effects what comes out of it… including our hair. Make sure to maintain a healthy diet full of live foods and drink a lot of water. If you’re taking medication, speak with your nutritionist about taking vitamins. Biotin and Vitamin E are both great for hair growth.
I thought I'd bring out this classic mixtape cut from Dead Prez for Black History month...love this...
"Beauty's within not just on the surface, the skin that you're in, you're already perfect, they got nothin on you baby!!! Beautiful girls come in all types of flavors, when you love yourself, it's always gone be haters, they got nothin on you baby! Just keep doin you baby!!"
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