necolebitchie.com - As if having your divorce drama played out for the world to see wasn’t bad enough, Porsha Stewart allegedly found out that her marriage was over by reading it on the Internet like the rest of us. Yesterday, after it was reported that Porsha’s controlling husband Kordell Stewart filed for divorce, an alleged close friend of Porsha’s told Us Magazine that the RHOA star was “blindsided” by the news.

She was 100 percent completely blindsided. Friends are trying to contact her but she’s not picking up her phone or returning texts.[...]Her whole identity is about being a happy, obedient wife. The other women criticized her for not having a backbone but she was like, ‘A real marriage is about honoring your man, your king.’ She is really upset.”

Porsha did release a statement through her rep that she had first thought of filing for divorce but Kordell lied to her, convincing that he was ready to work on their marriage but instead going behind her back and filing himself.

Porsha was very hopeful and rode for her man to the end. She even told Hollywood Life just days before the divorce was filed that they were Team Stewart and that he was the king and she was the queen. You can peep that below:



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eurweb.com - Fantasia covers the April 2013 issue of Sister 2 Sister.



In the interview, she discusses her relationship with Antwaun Cook, revealing they are no longer an ‘item.’ But all in all, she admits learning from the disappointment and growing from the experience.

“Me and Antwaun, as of now, we are not together. I think it’s the best thing for us all. We had to learn how to become friends again. There was so much stuff that came out,” Fantasia told Sister 2 Sister. “We were all hurt along the way. There’s trust issues. There’s just a lot of stuff that kinda got put in the mix. And I, at one point, I wanted to make everybody else happy. To love him, to make sure Zion was okay, to make sure everything—but I had to get to a place where I had to learn how to love Fantasia. I never did that, Jamie. And if I don’t love myself, then I can’t be in a relationship.”

And what she learned (about being the other woman) – “I think we both have a lot of regrets of how things just happened; it all happened so fast. I just went full-speed ahead and that’s why I was tellin’ you now. I think out everything before I do it. Everything.”

The issue is out on stands now.

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blackmediascoop.com - Porsha Williams' husband Kordell Stewart has filed for divorce. The former star filed for divorce on March 22. The couple married on May 21, 2011 and have no children together but Stewart has a son from a previous relationship.


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We toldya Porsha quit her job on the ‘Real Housewives Of Atlanta’, because Kordell is “not allowing” her to return for a second season. The issue of children came up often on the reality show — Porsha wanted to have kids AND a career in charity work but Kordell told her she had to choose.

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People.com - Ever since Tiger Woods and Lindsey Vonn revealed their romance in simultaneous Facebook posts on Monday, the reaction from women has mostly been varying degrees of head-scratching.


(Courtesy Tiger Woods and Lindsey Vonn)


Why would Vonn, 28, the fresh-faced skiing star and Olympic gold medalist, go for a man whose marriage-ending sex scandal arguably made him a poster child for whom not to date?

Apparently, the answer is simple. "Tiger makes Lindsey happy," says one Vonn pal. "She isn't concerned what others think. She trusts her instincts. She is very comfortable with the relationship."

A source close to Woods, 37, says the golf pro has been open with Vonn about his past, which includes adultery and a 45-day stay in rehab, reportedly for sex addiction.

"They have sat down and talked it out more than once," says the source. "He has explained his side and owned up to what he did wrong. He has been honest with her. She's not freaked out by his past." More here

necolebitchie.com - According to Will, most people have a warped perception that falling in love and maintaining the type of love that he and Jada have, is much easier when you have money, but it could actually make things more difficult. During an appearance in Philly last month, he was very open as he talked about his 17-year-relationship with Jada, as well as insecurities that a person has to overcome to love another person unconditionally. He also says that when a person decides that they want to be married, they have to be willing to collide with the weakest parts of themselves and that overall, Jada has pushed him to become a better man. 

 
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I grew up in West Philly, with the idea that all of the things you have to deal with on a daily basis to survive tends to get in the way of love, however, it’s not very different when your on our financial level. I think a lot of people think that when you have money, that everything gets really easy, Hell Naw! Jada and I have been together for 17 years. If you look at it like a sports record, we are probably like 15 and 2. When we got started, we both truly connected on wanting to be better. That’s where it all started. There were other people that we were dating and other people that we were attracted to, but there was a commitment to constantly be better that was what we connected on. Our whole world and relationship was that, “Hey, I know that I may not be all of that today but what I’m not going to do is lay around and not keep working to be better to deserve you.”

I would say that concept is very central to having any success in this game of love at all. The central idea of love is not even a relationship commitment, the first thing is a personal commitment to be the best version of yourself with or without that person that you’re with. You have to every single day, mind, body, and spirit, wake up with a commitment to be better. Don’t make that same mistake tomorrow that you made today. Read full story