Dear Tony,
I’m a man that has been married several times and currently in a marriage that has lasted 7 years. This marriage started out rocky, and then it started to lack intimacy, honesty, and respect. There was some cheating on both ends, and I had grown tired, and wanted to be with one person that I could trust, and could trust me, someone that I could communicate with, and someone that I could call a true friend and wife. In 2009 I met a woman, and we began to confide in one another, and eventually became more than just friends. This woman got to know me in ways my wife never even tried to know me, and this woman truly was a good friend, until my wife found out about the affair in late 2010. We separated. The woman saw how I reacted, while being separated from my wife for about 7 months, all the hurt and all, and she told me with tears in her eyes, "to make things right with my wife, and seek counseling, and most of all to LEAVE HER ALONE." I didn’t do right by this woman, and there was no excuse for the drama I brought into her life. She never once tried to pressure me to leave, only because I gave the impression that I was leaving. It wasn’t until I was in the dog house at home, and living with a relative, and had hit rock bottom, that I realized why I married my wife. I find myself right to this day still thinking about this woman, and passing by her house, and, or her job. I have sent text messages, left voicemails, and even emails, and she refuses to talk to me. It's been quite sometime now since we have spoken or seen each other face to face. She has never been that way towards me. I miss her and although I eventually went back home, I still have this woman deep within my heart. My wife and I are trying to settle our differences, and have sought counseling. I have never felt like a better man, than when I was with this particular woman, and I would do almost anything just to able to communicate with her, I would love to be her friend, or just someone that she could talk to.

   

Sean “Diddy” Combs celebrated at Philippe on Wednesday after his eldest son, Justin, signed a letter of intent to play football at UCLA. Earlier, Diddy attended a ceremony at Justin’s high school, Iona Prep, on National Signing Day, along with Justin’s mother, Misa Hylton-Brim. The future Bruin tweeted a photo of the family from the event, and then arrived at Philippe with his dad and Spike Lee to celebrate with guests in a private room. Sources say the adults drank Ciroc while the kids toasted with ginger ale. Congrats Justin!

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Randy Jackson says that he'd be fine if Mariah Carey -- who he manages -- joins the rival Fox competition series X Factor. The American Idol judge commented on the Mariah speculation, saying, "I don't know if that's ever going to happen. Look, Simon's one of the smartest people I know. I'm sure he he's got some very interesting ideas up his sleeve." If it does become a reality, Randy has no problems with Carey going to the other show. He explained, "She's her own person. She can of course do whatever she wants and she always will do that."