I've been seeng a married man for several years. He swept me off my feet the day I met him. We went out to a party that very night. We were together several times a week for years. One afternoon we ran into his wife, she went berserk. She cried and screamed at the both of us. She punched him in the face, drawing blood. She asked me why I was calling her house and her job. HE TOLD ME THAT SHE KNEW ABOUT US! Tony, I have never called her. He stopped seeing me for two years but is now trying to come back. He said their marriage is horrible that they have serious problems that's why he never spent time with her. He said did you see how she blew up. I am starting to think that she was telling the truth but maybe he was also cheating on me, this woman was too upset and emotional. What have I gotten myself into? She has some issues and I'm afraid that she might attack me next time. We love each other and I am missing him. HE ASK ME TO BE PATIENT UNTIL HE CAN GET OUT OF THIS SITUATION. HE SAID EVEN IF HE LEAVES HER SHE WILL NEVER ALLOW US TO BE AT PEACE. He was crying. What do you do when you love the man and he loves you? Are we suppose to put our love on hold, for this maniac?