Dear Tony,

I've known my husband since forever. We dated for 5 years, and have been married for two. I thought we were complete, happy, in love, you know all that good stuff in a marriage. Until I found out he has a Facebook page. Now it sounds sweet and innocent at least I thought. Until I read his page. His status is searching for women and he is friends with most of his ex's and there are even a few pics of some women I have never seen. He even has his information locked because he knows I check my sister's FB from time to time. I was more hurt than mad, it tore my insides apart that he did this. When I was on the computer checking my sisters FB I noticed some of his ex's and I showed them to him he acted brand new but come to find out he'd been talking to them already. He didn't even mention he was married or anything. When your married everything is on the table or it's considered being sneaky. To make a long story short I went and got legal separation pages for he and I to sign. I felt if he is so called searching, let his search continue and leave me out of it. What should I do?