Dear Tony,

About a year ago, I got out of a 5 year very horrible relationship. My ex did everything under the sun to me from lying, cheating with all kinds of women, having outside children, plus being verbally and sometimes physically abusive towards. About a year ago, the relation ended very badly, but thank GOD, it ended. Since then I have received God back into my life, and I have received some thearpy to help me get myself back together mentally. I havent dealt with a guy since the breakup. I haven't exchanged phone numbers nor have I been intimate with anyone because I didn't want to get off focus of me getting myself together. I'm finally at the point where I am ready to deal with someone again.  A few weeks ago I finally exchanged numbers with a guy that I use to work with at my old job. I've always thought he was nice looking and interesting. Something made me ask him when was his birthday and when he told me, I almost passed out!  His b-day is on the exact same day as my ex!  All my life I never got into the whole zodiac compatibility. After going thru so many years of HELL with someone of a this same zodiac sign, I'm afraid that I am going to put myself back into the same situation that I just got out of.  This new guy is very nice and he wants to pursue this further with me, yet I'm afraid that because of his zodiac sign that he is going to end up being just like my ex!  What should I do?  PLEASE HELP!