Dear Tony,

I became good friends with this guy for two years. In the beginning everything was terrific. We were truely two peas in a pod. We did everything together. We were inseperable. We became engaged and soon after got married. Now I don't know if I made the right decision. I'm not sexually attracted to him nor do I feel we're on the same page. He's a great person, don't get me wrong. I'm not having an affair or anything. He's a very aggressive person, so I'm afraid to tell him I want out, what should I do?