Dear Tony,

I'm 27, married for 3 years. What started off as a dream marriage turned into somewhat of a nightmare. Our first year was great. We'd joined church together and were headed in the right direction. Year 2 was a different story, he started acting distant, stop paying bills around the house, no time for me, no church. I started catching him in lies about simple things about his past or how much he actually earned at work. Year 3 I found out that he'd had an affair the year before and there was a possible child and I left midway through. By June, we decided to work it out. He moved in with me, and everything was okay at first, I found out again that he had been confessing his love to another via Facebook literally a cyber relationship. I've never been the one to go searching. I'm a firm believer in trusting your mate, both times the other women have contacted me first. Not to mention still no help in the finance dept and I'm still catching him in lies. I need him out but he has no
where to go. I'm so confused. I just want to be alone and happy at this point, what should I do?