Dear Tony, I am in a relationship with someone and we have been together for almost 20yrs. We have relations at least 3 to 4 times a week for 1 to 2hrs a session. Now here is the situation. This week we had relations Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday night. Each night the sex lasted for about 2hrs and last night I turned him down because I was too tired and he had a fit. He got up out of bed and accused me of having an affair because I wouldn’t have sex with him last night. At about 3:00 AM he comes back to bed still complaining about me not wanting to have sex with him. This morning he still had an attitude. My question is why do men get so upset when a woman doesn’t want to have sex. Mind you I am the one getting up and getting the kids ready for school along with getting ready for work. And, when I come home in the evening, I am the one cooking dinner, cleaning up from dinner making sure the kids get their homework done and get their baths. I keep the house clean and do all the laundry and he can’t understand why I am tired. What should I do?