Dear Tony,

My mama fell at work and hurt her back. She's almost near retirement and she's really upset about this. She's asked me if she can move in with me for extra help. I've been avoiding her because I don't want to give her an answer. I really don't want her to move in. I love my mama, but she is a mess. She might move in and never move out. My sister lives out of state and she's been giving me grief about avoiding our mother. I know it's not right, I'm not wrong. What do you think?