Dear Tony,

My husband’s best friend is a lesbian. She’s all butch and they hang like two dudes. She was his friend before me and I approved of her initially. Now their relationship is making me feel very uncomfortable. The thought of the two of them hooking up NEVER crossed my mind, but I think she's hooking him up with her friends who go both ways.I just saw pictures of my husband on Facebook with her and a bunch of girls at a nightclub. The women were hanging all over him. His lesbian buddy had this “YOU KNOW IT” expression all over her face. I hate them together! When I tell him how mad it makes me, he goes into this thing, “Baby, you don’t have to worry about her. She’s gay and like a brother to me.” I'm not happy about this but I can't get him to see this. What should I do?