Dear Tony,

I need some advice on a relationship I'm in. When we first met she told me she was married and was not happy because her husband was nasty and lazy in bed. On our first date the connection was so strong we slept together. We were both in the wrong! The relationship continued and we became closer and closer meeting each others families while she and her husband continued living together. She assured me she was leaving and did. The problem I have is she keeps on hinting about her bills and I have helped a lot but I started noticing her being more distant when I would'nt pay her rent. Then I caught her not being at home and staying out all night. Then one night I rode by her husband's house and her car was there. She told me a line but I have caught her cheating on me in the past and forgave her. I still love her. Should I try to get back with her. Thank you for the help.