Dear Tony,

I'm at a loss on what to do. My girlfriend of three years has been laid off for a little over a year. She recently took a job at a porno store on the East side. She says she needed the money. We don't live together and she's been making it with unemployment, my help and her dad's help. She said I have nothing to worry about. She's been working there 3 weeks and she's already wearing platform heels and fish nets. She never wore that stuff before. I told her I don't like it but she says it's part of the uniform. I'm not buying that for a minute. I want her to quit but I know she won't. I'm not sure what to do. Tell her dad? Give her an ultimatum? Help me out here.