I have this cousin who has a different woman every six months, and it seems every time he gets a new woman, he has her drive to get his three kids from a previous relationship from New York City. I feel bad for these women and his children. I mean what does that teach his kids? Every woman thinks, I’m going to be the one he marries, but they are so mistaken. One day at one of our family gatherings I heard he paid my child to lie to one of the women calling his phone. Now I love my cousin but this is too much. My son is saying he wants to be just like his big cousin and not like me. I try and influence him to do the right thing but doesn’t seem like it's working? Would I be wrong to forbid my child from seeing his cousin?