Dear Tony,

I am sexually attracted to my pastor. So much so that I can hardly concentrate during his sermons. In the last few months, I've signed up for every board, event, anything the church is having in hopes I can spend more time with him. He's never been inappropriate with me (even though I wish he would). He's only been nice, friendly and pastorly. I know that I'm wrong, but my attraction is so strong.  Should I go to another church? Should I confess my feelings to my pastor and seek his guidance? I don't want to leave my church because I feel like I am being spiritually fed, but I don't know how to stop my attraction to my pastor.