Dear Tony,

I have been dating this guy for almost three years. In the beginning there were always problems with other women calling my phone and saying that they got my number out of his phone. I let that slide. Then there were times when I would notice him always texting other people when he is around me. I got to the point where I wanted to know what was being said in these texts. So I started going through his phone only to see that it's other women that he is talking to and saying things that he should only be saying to me. He told me that he was only doing it to get their reactions but it was nothing for me to worry about. So I let that slide. It got to a point where he was always at my place so I decided to let him move in with me and my son. Things were ok at first until I started noticing his phone ringing and he wouldn't answer. He would get text messages and wouldn't respond. Then he would say, "I'll be back" then he would up and leave. He's always talking to his kid's mother but never spends time with his kids. What is that all about? I brought it to his attention and asked why he felt the need to keep in touch with them and he told me he wasn't. I told him that if its not regarding your children you don't need to be talking to and/or spending time with the mother or no other women. I go around his family and I feel so uncomfortable because they are close with his kid's mother and she is always around. I let this man move in with me and my son and I love him dearly but I don't trust him. What should I do?