Dear Tony,
 
I received a great job offer in another city and most of my family is happy for me. I think this could be a great new start for me and my younger children. My husband has been doing his own thing for a while now and by that I mean cheating. He probably has another family some where for all I know. But my only problem is leaving my two oldest children here with my husband. Earlier this year my oldest got really sick and it seemed as if my husband tried to step and take care of him but now he’s never there and I’m the one trying to force my child to take his medicine. My second eldest doesn’t respect her father anymore and refuses to follow any directions given by him. This is all becoming too much for me. My older children are grown but they still live at home. I’m torn in between a fresh a start and being a mediator for my family. What should I do?