Dear Tony,

My husband admitted to cheating. Over the years when I would accuse him of cheating he would laugh at me and taunt me about my insecurities, always telling me I was wrong. For whatever reason this year he wanted to come clean and confess. He also said the women he was seeing started putting the pressure on for more of his time which he was unable to do because he was not leaving home. I do not trust this man behind a straw. I feel like the habits he had when running around on me should change (for instance always out in the clubs). He wants me to put a band aide on it and forget because he chose home. But it's painful and it's hard to forget. Should I move on?