Dear Tony,
 
Six years ago my wife and I move here from Greensboro. We've had two children since we've been here. The thing is those kids are not mine. I can't have children but I never told her. I love those kids like their my own. I know she cheated on me twice. I'm past that. I want my family. I got laid off over a year ago. My wife works and makes about $60,000 a year. I've worked at Wal-Mart and other places just so I can do something. I have the opportunity to take a job back home in Greensboro. I'll make $55,000 a year. My wife doesn't want to go. She says she makes more and it would be crazy to go backwards. I like St. Louis but I have no fond memories and honestly want to leave really bad. I can't leave my family. I don't know what to do.